After months of marriage, it’s hard to understand why my husband refuses to talk about problems. At times, he is more willing to talk about the challenges of our marriage, but when he talks about problems, he often tells me to “shut up.” I’ve tried everything to get him to talk about his issues, but he just won’t. He tells me I am his therapist, but I’m not sure what he sees in me.
I’ve tried to help my husband because he is my husband. I am his wife. I am his therapist. I am the mother of his children. I am his friend and my sister-in-law. But he just won’t talk.
This is one of those times where I really hope he will. Because when he talks about his problems, there is always some part of him that is honest and open about them. Unfortunately his honesty is more about hiding them than about talking about them.
The problem with not talking about problems is that you’re not going to find a lot of people who are happy to have you as a therapist. You’re less likely to be able to understand the problems, and you’re less likely to know how to help. It’s much more likely that you will be like my husband: You’re an expert at helping me to feel my problems are normal, when in reality they’re not.
I am glad that we have this opportunity to talk about our problems. A lot of people don’t want to talk about problems because it takes the focus away from the problems themselves. However, you also may not even be able to understand how the problems affect you, which is why it’s important for you to know more about them.
The real problem is that many men just don’t want to talk about problems. They act as if they dont have any, or have no problem talking about them, or that theyre all just a big joke! I can understand why this may be the case. If you dont want to talk about problems, then there isn’t much point in trying to fix them. In fact, if you dont want to work on your problems, then there is no point in trying to fix them.
Now I know that its not easy to fix problems if you dont want to tackle them but this is a common attitude. The good news, especially for men, is that there are lots of resources available to help people work through their problems.
The trouble is that the vast majority of us are so busy dealing with problems that we fail to talk about them. We do things, and we talk about them, but then when things do work out, the things we did are rarely talked about. So rather than fixing problems, we just move on.
This is a common problem for men, and the reason is that, for most of us, the world is a black hole. It’s hard to even consider anything new because we’ve spent so much of our life dealing with problems that we are just so used to walking on the edge of things. This is a problem that I hope will be addressed in the next generation of games. Games will be able to provide the tools and the knowledge to help everyone work through the issues that they are experiencing.
Games will also help to relieve our problems. Imagine if we all found each other’s games. We’d all be able to deal with problems better. Not everyone is as lucky as me. I see this problem all to often. Maybe this is why video game developers are so obsessed with creating games that make you more aware of how you’re experiencing your world. Maybe it’s why some of them are so good at doing what they do.