The truth is that we are constantly trying to balance our feelings of self worth and self-worth, but we can’t do that. It is important to focus on the things that matter most and that are important to us.
Self-worth is like an internal compass that allows us to steer away from the things that are not right with our lives. The reason why is because the things that are not right with our lives are what matter most to us. For example, one of the big problems I see with people who talk about their self worth as a positive thing is that they are actually afraid that they are not worthy of the things they value most. We all struggle with that every day.
This is where rule-based thinking comes in. A lot of people are afraid they are worthless because their parents or other people in their life have not supported them to be who they are. They feel as if they aren’t worthy because they can’t do everything their parents did.
This is definitely something that happens to people with a lot of money. I once read a person who had a lot of money told me that she was not worthy of the things she wanted because she was not like the other people in her life. I don’t know what she was talking about because she wasn’t like any of the people she met.
I think many of us at some point have felt as if we were not good enough. This can be a scary feeling because you have no one else to go to for help. I once read a person who was going through a divorce told me that she didnt feel good enough to be with her husband. I dont know what was wrong with her, but I think this is something you can easily correct by not having the same parents as your loved ones.
I feel like a lot of times we look at ourselves in self-inflicted bad light and feel like we are always in the wrong. I think it is important to take a step back and realize that you are not an always bad person. I think what you can easily do is take a moment to reflect on what you are comfortable with and what you are not comfortable with.
To be honest, I can’t say I would have a husband. I would have an ex-husband, but that would still be my ex. The fact of the matter is that I think I probably could have a husband or boyfriend. I think I could be the right person for him. I guess I am also a little bit attracted to men, which I think is probably the root of my attraction to a lot of guys. But I would never marry someone just to have them around.
And you know what? I think that is pretty much the entire purpose of marriage to me. I am not married to somebody just because of the way I am attracted to them. I am married to somebody because they are a better person than I am. And if someone were to come along and be all I could have, it would be a very unhappy marriage.
Ok, so what is rule based? I think of it as something that is meant to give us a sense of control. Something that tells us that we can make things happen whenever we want, and that we don’t have to think about how to make things happen. I will say though that sometimes I think it is all about control. That is, unless you are the one controlling the situation, you are pretty much completely in the hands of whoever is controlling the situation.
Some of you may be offended or disgusted by the phrase “rule based”. Or perhaps you feel your life should be a game of “rule based”, and that is what you should use it for.